Thursday, July 12, 2012

I can write mommy porn too!!!

It's true I can write mommy porn, (I just usually choose not to). I even did a little bit earlier in the year when I had a school project to write a story that was Chick Lit/Modern Gothic/Fairy Tale. Read at your own peril ;)






He walked into the coffee shop, my coffee shop, where I ventured after my classes, 5 days a week to purge my daily insanities. It isn’t that he was breathtaking or gorgeous, at least not in any conventional manner, but there was just something about him, something that caught my eye and my eyes were not letting go. While sitting on the ever so comfortable rouge loveseat in the middle of the shop, I scooted over to the left side from the middle so that maybe someone could sit next to me. In my fantasies that maybe man would sit right next to me and start up a conversation upon which he’d ask me out on a date, which would lead to a relationship or living arrangement or dare I dreamed, MARRIAGE. “Dum dum di dum, dum dum di dum dum…” the voice in my head hummed. But surely I was getting ahead of myself. Or was I? Who wouldn’t want to marry this tall, lean, toned man with spectacular green eyes? I saw him mouth his order to the waitress though the deafening clamors of satellite music and gossip. My palms, hot from the warmth of chai tea, dripped sweat along my fingers, forcing the mahogany mug to slip from my hands and plop down onto the coffee table in front of me. A coffee ring appeared on the magazine it fell onto - a magazine for which I hadn’t paid.
            “Damn it!” I almost screamed before comprehending that I was in public.
            I knew I was left with only a few options. I could sit there and wait for someone to notice what I had done and be held responsible for the drenched September issue of Vogue, a magazine that I had always vehemently refused to read on principle or not so much principle as the unsatisfying internal feelings I would get with my own body and wardrobe when I looked at the forever gorgeous size 0 models. Or I could go up to the cash register and just buy it, but then I’d be losing out on the perfect seat I had and my coincidental meeting with my future fiancé. So instead I decided to just put the magazine under the pile and hope that no one would notice. And that’s exactly what I did.
Meanwhile my eyes were still glued to this gorgeous man’s backside, clad in his black not so tight-fitting but flawless tailored pants, which captured the perfectly charismatic movement of his derrière. Oh yes would I have liked, no adored, to be the one lying in a bed of satin sheets with this man caressing every membrane of my sensual body. To feel his long hard hands gently touching my most sensitive areas.  He’d tease me with his tongue gliding up and down around my navel then sucking on my nipples until I’d scream with pleasure, and perhaps a little pain. Then my hands placed upon his chest, would caress his body everywhere. His penis tense and at attention in my hands, I’d rub in strides. His hungry eyes would plead for more and I’d follow with my tongue licking every inch of his body except for his feet because that is clearly inappropriate unless one has a foot fetish which would be a catastrophe and only allots for more obscurities and psychosis. I would never be with such a man. And I knew for certain this man could not be such a dastardly freak because he was obviously perfect. And no perfect man of mine would be that erotically challenged. I would never stand for it!
And there he was, my perfect man, the manliest man I’d ever seen (only a true man, comfortable with his sexuality and masculinity would be able to wear such tight-fitted pants - oh dare I swoon!)  standing right in front of me, as he was then, searching for a seat, his eye catching the empty spot on the loveseat. But before he could sit down, Bree, my best friend from childhood (though this act definitely lowers her status in my mind) nabbed it.
“Thanks for saving me a seat darling” she said before kissing my cheek.
“What?” I said in shock.
“Why you usually just sit in the middle and it takes a crane to move your large but beautiful arse.” It was typical Bree, thinking that she could add a British twang to her speech just because her great grandmother’s third cousin lived in London for a brief stint of 10 years.
I couldn’t form words anymore. I was still too preoccupied with my dream man disappearing and heading over to another empty seat.
“So how are you my dear?”
“I’m all right.” But I wasn’t all right. My luscious lover was sitting two couches away from me, when I should’ve been able to accidentally graze his thigh, which would’ve been conveniently located next to mine.
“I assume school was a bitch today. But then again, you know what they say about those that assume?”
“What?” My eyes were fixated on my lover’s spoon swishing around in his café mocha.
“When you assume, you make an ass out of you and me.”
“Yeah,” I said, watching his soft lips touch the warm liquid just as I imagine they would press against my neck. “It tickles,” I’d say, but I’d want him to continue and he would.
Bree’s hand waved in my face like a mentally-disabled child waving to a passing stranger.
“What the hell are you doing?”
“Didn’t anyone ever tell you it’s rude to stare?”
“Oh, is it really that obvious?”
“Is it obvious that a dick is in you when you’re having sex?”
“Depends on the size,” I said without thinking. Bree slapped her leg and laughed. “All right it wasn’t that funny.” I couldn’t stand it anymore. I got up from my chair, hoping to go anywhere as long as it was away from her.
“Where are you going?” Bree called behind me.
“I don’t know.” Where was I going? He was sitting right near the bathroom door. I took a step towards him, but he didn’t notice. He was reading the New York Times. Oh he’s not just gorgeous, I realized. He was smart too!
I had the image of us actually having an intellectual discussion together that is if we weren’t too preoccupied with other things. I started fantasizing about the debates we’d have, the epiphanies we’d share, and the communal experience of rational thought as we discussed Socrates’ forms, Plato’s cave, Descartes “cogito ergo sum”. The words from his mouth would be like ecstasy to my ears. But how would I go about getting his attention? I stood there horribly clueless for a moment and then his green eyes, looked up to me in curiosity. There were no words that came to save me from my silence but my lips parted at least to offer some hint that I was in fact alive. He smiled and said, “Hi,” in a deep baritone. Oh my his voice was so deep, so strong.
“Hi,” I finally stammered as my cheeks turned to ripe strawberries.
“Would you like to sit down?” he asked, casually, calmly, exactly like I wanted my future husband to sound.
“Yes” I wanted to scream, but I manage to say it shyly. “I’d love to.”

As I walked out of the cafe, my heart felt like it was going to fly through my skin into the blue sky above me. I couldn’t believe it! I had a date with the man of my dreams. After two hours of sweet and thoughtful chatting, mostly on his end since I was in shock for a good hour and a half, he asked me out for dinner that night. Suddenly the horrible realization that I had absolutely nothing to wear flashed before me. I immediately grabbed my phone and called Bree. “You have to help me!” I said when she picked up and she agreed to meet me at the mall in an hour.
“I shouldn’t be helping you shop, really. After all you deserted me.  I was completely left to my own devices after you ran off with that guy. I’d like to see what would happen if I let you pick out your own outfit for this evening.” She laughed.
“Hey, it’s not my fault I’m fashion-challenged.”
“Is that all? Just fashion-challenged? What about cooking?”
“It’s not my fault my mom was working all the time and then died tragically when I was still so young and therefore was never there to teach me how to cook!”
“And what about sewing? Or dancing? Or painting?”
“What are we in the 1950s? I don’t need to know how to do any of that stuff.” I rolled my eyes.
“But how will you be a good house wife if you don’t know?” she teased.
“I won’t need to be! I’ll find a husband who will cook, clean, and please me in all the ways that women need pleasing.” I winked but secretly I wanted to be able to do all of those things. It was my duty as a post-feminist woman to say I don’t want to do any of that stuff but hide the fact that all I wanted was to meet a rich man who would let me be a housewife.
Bree first took me to the usual shops; H&M, Express, The Limited, but we had no luck. Everything seemed either too slutty or immature. “He’s a real man. I need something like a sultry black satin dress with a string of white pearls.” I could see the image in my head but I was too young to appear in it, so instead I increased my age by 11 years until I saw myself at 30, more mature, my face tighter, less soft, but still unwrinkled.
“How old is this guy anyway?” Bree asked, raising an eyebrow.
I hadn’t a clue, but I suspected he was in his 30s, better not to frighten Bree about it though. “I don’t know, like 30,” I replied.
“He looked older than 30.”
“What does it matter?”
“It matters because you’re 19.”
“So he’s gorgeous and smart and beautiful.”
“But he’s old.” Her eyebrows raised and the skin on her forehead creased. She won’t look so good when she’s 30, I mused to myself.
“And I like it. He’s more mature, more worldly, more intelligent. He’s not a boy. He’s a man.”

I wondered what he was thinking. Was he looking at my clothes, and thinking our fancy dinner date was a big mistake? I thought I had found the perfect dress, a green silk mermaid dress that would cling tight to my hips and waist as it did to the mannequin but when I tried it on and stood before the mirror I felt so inferior to that plastic woman outside the dressing room. Her long thin shiny limbs looked immaculate compared to my indistinguishable waist and hips. I’m sure he would prefer to sit across from a gorgeous long-legged mature woman, who was both petite and had an hourglass figure. I knew this was a mistake, the coffeehouse was a fluke, me just sitting there idly listening to him talk about the latest news reported in the New York Times. There was something about Iran and Syria, and the whole Middle East. I never understood why they couldn’t just get along.
            He smiled at me.  I could see some small twinkle in his eye, a true instance of delight that my presence was giving to him. I imagined the two of us sitting in an isolated cottage near the sea. I’d sit quietly next to him as he read the paper, smoking a pipe and he would smile back at me. It probably wasn’t love he’d find in me. Bree was right, he was too old and mature to see that in me. Perhaps, he was just looking for a sweet wife to take care of him for when he got older. But another side of me felt the desire, the longing he had in his stare. I licked my lips and his smile grew wider. Who cares if I have a boy body with no difference between my hips and waist, I’m sure he’ll know what to do with it anyway, I thought.
“Would you like some champagne?” he asked and what could I say? I would’ve loved champagne, but I didn’t have a fake I.D. I figured I might as well be honest with him.
“I would, but they won’t give it to me.” I blushed, ashamed of my infantile youth.
“Ah.” He smirked. “I forgot how young you are. Don’t worry about it,” he said and he guided his hand along the white tablecloth until he held my soft hand. His fingers felt rough and they squeezed mine tight, a little too tight, but I didn’t ask him to stop or release me. I liked the feeling of his strength taking over. And then it was gone, his hand, retreated back to his side of the table and he snapped his fingers to get the waiter’s attention.
“I’d like a bottle of your finest champagne,” he said and the waiter scurried off to grant his wish.  The silver bucket of ice was placed next to John and as the waiter went to pour me a glass, John shooed him away with the flick of his hand.
“A little privacy, please.”
“Of course, sir,” the waiter said. He pulled a red curtain behind him as he left. John and I were alone, finally. John poured the bubbly liquid until it spilled over the top of my glass. He glided his tongue along the glass catching all that had escaped from the top. “Delicious,” he whispered as if it was a secret for only my ears. My heart beat as if it were a drum, running so fast, racing with the blood that was now a permanent display on my cheeks. He handed me the glass and motioned for me to drink. I took a sip and he motioned for me to drink more. I swallowed as much as I could with a little bit dripping down along my chin. As I lifted the red napkin from my lap, John gently pushed my hand down and brought his napkin forward to wipe my chin.
He smiled to himself for a moment and then said, “You’re special, aren’t you?”
I searched my brain for something clever to say. “I don’t know.” My glance fell to the tablecloth and then rose again. “Aren’t we all special in our own way?”
“No, we are not, but you my dear, are something special.  I could feel it when I first saw you. There’s something about you, and I feel drawn to it.”
My insides quivered. “I feel drawn to you too.” It was his piercing emerald eyes, staring directly into my soul, I knew it.
“I want to ask you a question, but I wonder if you’ll think me too forward.” He took my hands from my lap and held them in his own.
“No, it won’t. Please ask,” I pleaded.
“I’d like to take you away this weekend. I have a yacht… and I want you to come with me for a day trip. Will you?” His forehead crinkled, his eyes looked glassy.
I felt like I was floating in the air, through the curtain, over the other tables outside with dates eating their expensive caviar and drinking their wine and I knew I finally belonged. He wanted me to accompany him on his yacht. I was in love.
“Oh it was foolish of me to ask, wasn’t it?”
“No!” I yelled. “Take me. I want to go with you.”
“Oh you don’t mean that. I saw you hesitate. I understand, you’re young and beautiful and probably have plenty of young men following you around, asking you out.”
“No, I don’t and” I paused, how could I say it to convince him I was sincere. “Even if I did, I don’t want them, I want to go with you. Take me, please.”

I didn’t dare tell Bree about it. She would’ve freaked at the idea of me on a yacht with an older man that I had only met the day before, but it just felt so right. John turned out to be a little older than I initially expected, closer to 40 than 30, and with a little baggage of a crazy ex but I thought that added to his character. He was experienced in life and love and marriage and still he was choosing to spend time with me, I couldn’t help but be a little flattered.
I asked for directions and took a taxi to the marina. John had offered to pick me up but I didn’t want to give him my address since it was my dorm and I didn’t want to remind him again how young I was. I wanted to be his equal, his peer, someone he could think of as a lover, if it turned that way. I felt like he was the person who I had been waiting for all this time; reading romance novels and chick lit, praying for when my own prince would come and he had finally arrived to take me away.
He held out his hand for me as I stepped aboard his ivory yacht. Everything was immaculate, from the patio furniture on the deck to the maroon bar stools in the private bar and the most impressive was the bedroom with its King Size bed and pristine 1000TC Egyptian cotton bed sheets. I wanted to take a bath in his white sheets and say goodbye for good to my cheap overstretched Jersey sheets that were hanging on for dear life back in my dorm room.
“How about a test run, my sweet?” He winked at me.

Besides the gory bits with the blood and pain, I always knew my first time would be spectacular as long as I found the right person. And I had; he was rough but gentle, sweet but naughty, doting me with caresses and kisses and licks galore! Oh was I ever in love! And he was big ;) which of course is something that we girls never think about too much, but still it was nice to know that my prince was a prince everywhere.
He nuzzled his nose in my messy hair. “I hope I didn’t hurt you my sweet cherub,” he murmured in my ear.
“Oh no, of course not.” Although I did feel a slight burning sensation.
“I’m so glad. I wanted your first time to be so special, like you.” He smiled at me with his green eyes glistening.
            “But how did you know it was my first time?”  I hadn’t told him, did I just have a big neon sign above my head that said “VIRGIN”?
            “Time reveals all things my dear. I sensed it at first and then I just knew last night at dinner. I knew you were different, not like her.”
            “Different from who?”
            He held me tighter and kissed me on the cheek. “Oh silly, no one to trouble your pretty little head about.”  He patted my head as he spoke. His words were reassuring, but I still felt an inkling of curiosity. I was sure he was comparing me to his ex and I knew absolutely nothing about her. Perhaps I would do a little snooping around when he wasn’t paying attention, just so I could size up the competition. “I’m going to go up and lead us out to sea my sweet. You relax here in bed or wander around the yacht, enjoy yourself. The only thing, it’s just a teeny tiny request that I’ll make of you is not to go look in the small room with the door perfectly hidden behind a gigantic book case in my office.” He pulled out some keys from a secret drawer in the dresser that I would’ve never been able to find on my own. “Ah, here it is,” he remarked as he placed a tiny brass key next to the bedside table. “Now don’t you go entering that secret room of mine. Men must be allowed to keep some secrets of course. I’m going to be up there for exactly 33 minutes.” He patted my head again. “We’re going to be so happy together, aren’t we?”
            I nodded and watched as he went upstairs. Immediately I threw on my clothes and I texted Bree, “Help! I’m on a yacht with the guy and I think he’s possibly a psycho killer.  Also, I finally lost my virginity, we can celebrate with cheap orange juice and vodka later, but now save me!!!!!!!! Meet me at Pleasant Waters marina ASAP!”

To this day, I’m still shocked at the events that followed. My silly John had led me on to believe he was a psychotic killer, what with his not so subtle game to lure me to open “his secret room” as if I’ve never read Blue Beard or The Bloody Chamber. Of course it wasn’t until all the other chaos ensued that he was finally able to show me his “secret room” that was chock full of jewels; rubies, diamonds, opals, emeralds, and so on. Granted it was a rather small room, but it was still a very lovely surprise and after having dealt with my best friend trying to murder me, I very rightly deserved a pleasant treat such as that. But of course I’m getting ahead of myself, so let’s rewind back to when I still thought my dear John wanted me dead.  
He was at the front of the boat and when I heard the motor start, I quietly dipped myself into the water from the back of the boat, hoping that the sound would be muffled by the motor. Since we had just left the dock, there wasn’t that much swimming involved. Soaking wet, I waited for Bree by the main entrance of the marina. My phone had died during my watery getaway so I hoped that she would spot me. Bree drove up in her blue Honda and ordered me to get in. She didn’t say anything as we drove at first but she didn’t need to since I spent the whole time blabbing about every detail from the past 2 days. At some point, I realized we weren’t driving back to the dorm and instead Bree drove 10 miles north of the marina. She turned off on an empty dirt road by the side of a forest. She reached for the glove compartment and pulled out a 9mm gun. “Slowly get out,” she said as she pushed the muzzle of the gun against my neck. “If you try to run, I will shoot you in the back.”
As I started walking from the car, I could hear Bree’s footsteps right behind, and feel the gun against my back. “Walk towards that tree,” she pointed.
 “Bree, why are you doing this?” I said, as tears poured out of my eyes.
“You stupid girl, you couldn’t leave well enough alone. You know he was mine before you ever set your sights on him.”
“Who?”
“John, you dimwit. Who do you think? Only a month ago, I was on that same yacht and he slept with me. And you know what he did afterwards? Do you have any idea?”
I shook my head as I continued blubbering.
“He told me to get off the yacht. He told me, I wasn’t good enough for him, pure enough, sweet enough.”
“So wait, he’s not a murderer?” Oh my dear sweet John, how I wished I had never left his yacht.
“No you idiot, why would you think that?”
“Too many Blue Beard stories I suppose.”
“Ugh, English majors and their imaginations. “
“So wait…why are you trying to kill me?”
“Because he wants you and I can’t have that.” She pointed the gun against the back of my head.
What happened next I can’t really say because I fainted. All I remember is waking up on  John’s yacht and him telling me that everything was okay. He said he had heard when I splashed into the water and was worried but he didn’t want to frighten me so he followed me instead and then followed Bree’s car. My fainting was the perfect distraction that he needed to overpower Bree. Unfortunately she died in the process and my poor John had to bury her body in the forest. I’m still sorry that I couldn’t help him hide the body.
“How can I ever repay you for saving my life?” I asked after we had spent ourselves making love again.
“You can live happily ever after with me. But first, come with me to my secret room. I was hoping you would make your way there earlier so I could dazzle you with a delightful surprise.” And that’s when he brought me to the room full of jewels and told me to pick out any diamond I wanted as it would be the stone for my engagement ring. I nearly fainted again as he dropped down on one knee in that very room and said, “Marry me!”
“Yes!” I screamed and we both cried with tears of joy streaming down our cheeks.



Tuesday, June 28, 2011

Mixed messages

I must implore you, Israel, please stop sending me mixed messages! I don't understand. I woke up this morning in Bat Yam (fyi for any Americans out there- Bat Yam translates to Mermaid- yeah I know, it's funny)  and walked across the street to take the convenient but annoyingly long 42 bus to work and I find out that overnight the bus is no longer stopping there. But that's not all, it seems that all the bus routes have been changed. Now you say that this is for the better, but I don't know how having to take a different bus and then walking an additional 15 minutes is a better way for me to get to work. Unless you think I'm fat and I'm warning you, Israel Bus Companies, I'm in no mood for your jokes. I also don't know how it's better for me that you're raising the cost of a bus ride for the second time again this year to 6.40 NIS. Now I was okay with the fact that it rose from 5.80 to 6 NIS in January because let's be honest, agarot are annoying to deal with and searching for 8 of them just for a bus ride is even more annoying. So I kind of thought this is okay, I can deal with it. But now you want me to search for 4 more agarot, what do you think, that I'm made of your pennies? And I hear your silly somewhat logical explanations, "but Suzanne, this new price includes as many buses as you want for 90 minutes." But you know what, Israel bus companies, you could've made that switch without raising the price again. And to be honest, I really don't need to take more than one bus in a  period of 90 minutes.

Now the other thing that I don't understand is that I hear you're also getting rid of those few buses that start an hour or two before shabbat ends. I just don't understand why.  Let's just look at the facts for a second, the people that actually support this "new schedule"  makeup at best 10% of the population? You can read more about them in this article http://blogs.reuters.com/faithworld/2011/04/14/jobless-ultra-orthodox-jews-weigh-on-israels-economy/ (this was the first think I found when I searched for "the annoying people that are trying to destroy my bus lines"...jk) Thanks for catering to the majority! With this and the continuously rising prices, it's as if you're telling me to stop riding public transportation and to buy a car.  But this is where I get really confused, because wasn't it just last month you were telling me that you want me to ride a bike all around tel aviv. Sorry if I misinterpreted this, but after you installed all those bike rental stations all over the city, I thought you were saying- there's no parking in this tiny city. Please don't drive- take this bike to work instead. But now I see this trick for what it really was, you were just mocking me for not knowing how to ride a bike. And to think I was ready to teach myself to ride a bike in 25 minute intervals (since the first 30 minutes are free).  Fine, you've won. You've left me with no choice after all,  I'll get my Israeli license and buy a car- but I'm holding you responsible. You'll be sorry once you see my driving. I bet you'll be crawling back to me on your knees, telling me you'll drop prices and reinstate buses to their proper times and proper stations, and even start letting public transportation run on shabbat. But by then it'll be too late. 

Saturday, May 21, 2011

Knock knock, it's your potential...

From the time that we're born we're told that we have so much potential and our family, friends, and educators repeatedly remind of us of this potential throughout our lives. "You have the potential to be a great..." or "I just don't want to see you waste your potential". The latter example usually comes into play for those who decide to act "somewhat rebellious" during their youth. I don't actually recall anyone saying that one to me but I definitely recall hearing the first one, "Suzanne, you have the potential to be something really amazing (or to do something really amazing)."

I'm a little bit up in arms with this idea of potential. What does it mean anyway? And who determines when someone has finally reached their potential or surpassed it? It all just seems a little too mythical to me, as if a fairy whispered some secret about my potential to my parents right after I was born and they told it to all the teachers and other family members around me. And all the time afterwards when these people referred to my potential they had some secret idea of the meaning behind it. 

I wish that at some point in my youth I had asked them, "and what exactly is this potential?" Because they wouldn't have a decent reply. They might say something vague like "to be the best you that you can be." But how silly does that sound. And I could have replied, "And what is the best me? Also, what are the steps that I need to take in order to become the best me."  Of course I was told that I would get closer to reaching this potential by doing well in school and going to a good college. After this you might be told about getting a good job and raising a family, but is that really all your potential adds up to? If you ask for more information, all you hear in response is dead air because the people that are telling you about your potential really don't know what it means either. They can't look in the future and tell you what will make you a great person, just as you can't. 

Knock Knock

"Who's there?" I ask.

"It's your potential." 

"ooo how can I reach you?" I ask.

"I'm right behind the door." Potential says.

"But the door's locked and I don't have a key. How can I open the door?" I ask.

"Beats me." Potential says.

"Can I call a locksmith?" I ask. 

"Nope. I'm told you're supposed to figure this out on your own. Good luck, honey." Potential laughs.

Wednesday, February 23, 2011

The Power of Genetics

Disclaimer: Due to various complaints regarding the subject and nature of this post, I felt the need to add a note. This post was meant to be humorous. No one was hurt (emotionally or physically) in the process of writing this post, or at any later point in time. Don't worry about the mental state of the person who wrote this post, even after realizing that certain genetic inferiorities are in fact valid, the truth is that this person has many more superior characteristics that foster a high level of self-esteem, probably higher than your own. Enjoy!

Today I realized just how genetically inferior I really am. It all started when a friend stopped by my room and curled her tongue. Next thing you know another person curled their tongue and then another person, until there was just me, except I can't curl my tongue because it's a genetic trait, which apparently my father (who can curl his tongue) didn't feel like passing down to me. He also didn't feel like passing down a lot of things. I have a whole list of them, entitled "things my father didn't pass down to me genetically (just to spite me)".


 1) His aptitude for standardized tests (his SAT score was at least 200 points higher than mine- mine was still good-fyi) and languages (he studied Latin, German, and Hebrew. I studied Spanish for 6 years and the only thing I remember is Como estas? And don't get me started on my Hebrew.


2) The ability to calculate equations in his head- to this day there's still a little pencil in my head that writes down all the equations- and you know what, it's subject to error and extremely inconvenient.


3) His memory- he used to be "somewhat" photogenic and I used to have a "somewhat" normal memory


4) His hatred for sweets- this would have come handy especially during my overweight awkward years (9-14, 18-19).


5) His ability to snap his fingers. Yes, that's right, some people have a lot of trouble doing this.

6) His scrabble skills. I don't like to talk about this one very much because it makes me sad :(


Now this isn't completely fair because my father did give me a lot of his traits, like his ridiculously curly hair - which I kinda like ;), his weirdness (although thankfully not his morbid sense of humour), his tone deafness, his complete lack of artistic talent and his myopia. My mom contributed her hyperopia and lazy eye- like the myopia wasn't enough, and I'm not sure if this last one is actually accurate to say, but I kind of blame her for making me lactose intolerant, since she told me that all she craved during her pregnancy was dairy. So thanks mom for using up all my lactase while I was still in the womb!

But seriously with all of these genetic flaws it's pretty amazing I can function as a "somewhat" normal human being. Maybe if god had planned this person better I wouldn't be questioning his existence all the time. I bet he didn't think about that, but he should have since he's supposedly omniscient.



Sunday, February 20, 2011

I'm a Toys R Us Kid

I find myself singing part of the toys r us theme song at least once a week, "I don't wanna grow up I'm a toys r us kid", but instead I change it to "I don't want to get up I'm a toys r us kid" or "I don't wanna go to work, I'm a..." because I'm usually singing it on Sunday morning and I think how I don't want to go to work. The thing is I actually like my job because as for jobs it's quite decent. The people are nice, the work is interesting, and they give me lunch money which kind of makes me feel like a toys r us kid, but who am I to complain since I don't want to grow up and I want to stay a kid, at least as much as a 24 year old can stay a kid.

I've given it a lot of thought recently and I've decided that I'd like to stay 24 years old until I feel that I've accomplished everything I want to at this point in my life. I don't think it'll be too difficult, I just need to become successful doing something I love, complete a novel, a book of short stories, read 500 more books this year, lose 10 kilo just for my own pure vanity, travel around the world, get a dog, and I'm sure there's so much more- (I'll think about it and add it to my Chanukah wish list). All of these things that I would really like to do are things I want to do while I'm still young and the amazing thing about staying a kid is that you can continue to push off these things until the end of time, which is what I've done most of my life.

But the problem is that as I get older I'm supposed to do all this other stuff,  "grown-up stuff", stuff I'm just not ready to do- like get married, start a family, own a home and keep it clean, and work because my family (the one that I'm not ready for) needs the money. I know it's bad but all I can think of in response to this is, "eww". And yet for some reason, so many people I know are getting engaged or married and I just don't understand it. I'm happy for them because that's what they want, but the concept seems so foreign to me. Maybe it's the fact that I just see today's adults as  (physically) big-little kids acting as grown ups- boys putting on their fathers' suits, girls putting on clown makeup and dressing in their mothers' high heels (and not knowing how to walk in them). Am I delusional? Or is it just that as I'm getting older, I realize how we're all just kids acting as adults because that's what we've been taught to do. But then again I was carded at the supermarket last week because the cashier thought I was under 18- so maybe it's just me.

FYI- there are Toys R Us stores in Israel and they're super lame!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VJJ-ZLdrTwY

Saturday, February 12, 2011

Why don't you just stick your foot in your mouth?

I tend to put my foot in my mouth all the time, it happened more often always in the U.S. because people are usually more careful about what they say due to the obsession with being politically correct and the worry that you accidentally offend someone. However in Israel, most people are rather blunt and while they would offend people outside of Israel, most Israelis pay no attention to it. But what happens when you're an Israeli who's trying to say "the right thing"? Usually, you end up putting your foot in your mouth. 

Case in point, last Wednesday when I was at a tapas bar with two friends, let's call them friend A and friend B, and our waiter was trying to console friend A after she said it's difficult finding an Israeli guy. Now this is something I  disagree with because in my opinion, Israeli guys make their intentions quite obvious to girls. So obvious that if I had some of my top adjectives to describe Israeli guys are flirty, easy, and slutty.

So the waiter tells friend A, "You're a beauty, that's why it's difficult for you." Now of course the waiter might say this just to get a nice tip, but the truth is friend A is very attractive. So the waiter goes on again about how Israeli guys are intimidated by such beautiful girls. I was expecting the waiter to say that "beautiful girls, like you all (since there were three of us sitting there)," but he didn't. He said how guys will approach other girls, less attractive girls. So according to this logic, I have a boyfriend because I'm easily approachable and I'm easily approachable because I'm unattractive. "So wait, we're ugly?" I ask the waiter. 

He says, "Oh no, of course not." He can tell that he said something wrong, so he tries to make up for it.  "It's just that you're both friendly looking, you know, you smile. She doesn't smile." So now the waiter has gone from calling friend B and me unattractive to then calling  friend A unhappy and unfriendly. At this point, it's in his best interest  to stop talking, but he's Israeli so he just continues. 

Friday, February 4, 2011

Real issues in Israel

I'm sick of people ranting about silly things that will never be resolved like the Israeli-Palestinian conflict. I prefer ranting about problems that can actually be resolved, as well as issues that directly affect my life and the people around me, like awful customer service, horrible drivers, people pushing their shopping carts into my ass at the supermarket as if they couldn't see it (come on, really it's not small), and especially one of the most important issues here is that the bars suck.

Why Israeli Bars suck?

1) Cocktails are ridiculously expensive. Cocktails usually range from 40-55 NIS ($11-$15), which is absurd since the average salary in Israel is only 7190 NIS/month before taxes.  That means the average Israeli will be out of money for the month after ordering about 120 drinks (this includes tips). One hundred twenty drinks a month is not enough to drink away your sorrows and I'm sure those that are only earning 7190 NIS/month and paying rent in Tel Aviv have a lot of sorrows.

2) The bartenders don't know how to make drinks.  Even simple drinks like a rum and coke or gin and tonic. The ingredients are pretty straight forward but for some reason the drinks are either extremely watered-down or the bartender will take the order too literally and give me a bottle of coke and a shot of rum or a bottle of tonic water and a shot of gin. I'm pretty sure they take some kind of bartending course which teaches them how to pour two drinks together, but who knows maybe I'm wrong?

3) The bartenders really don't know how to make drinks. Recently, my company set up a cute little bartending course for the employees. The bar was really nice but the bartenders were absolutely useless. I remember they were teaching us how to make a mojito. The ingredients according to the bartender were: rum, nana, sprite, sugar, and a lot of lemon. Since the mojito is one of my all-time favorite drinks, I knew that this bartender was full of it. So I stopped him and I said, "don't you mean lime?" To which he replied, "This is how we make it in Israel." I'd accept this statement as long as he didn't misinform people to begin with. If he started out by saying, "Hey so in Israel we don't use lime because we don't really have it here, so we replace all drinks that have lime (which are a lot) with lemon" then it would be cool, but the fact that he's telling people that this is "the proper way" to make this drink is just infuriating. And I don't even want to get started on the sprite!

For all those interested, the real ingredients are: light rum, mint, soda water, sugar, and lime.

4) They know nothing about wine. I really know almost nothing about wine, but for some reason in Israel I look like an expert. So let's travel back to my last story of the company event. When we first got to the bar, which I should mention is actually at the bottom of a wine shop, I asked for a glass of wine. And I asked the bartender if he had any from Binyamina, specifically Yogev because I've bought bottles of Yogev  in the past from the shop upstairs. And he said, "well actually we don't have the wine that we have upstairs down here."  Then I asked, "well what do you have?" And I get the response I always get at a bar, "we have red and we have white." And I'm thinking, "No shit Sherlock." So I ask, "do you have any Shiraz?" To which he replies, "Yeah...Israelis don't really drink wine so much." Yeah, I don't really know what to say about that since this bar is actually part of a wine shop. I guess Israelis don't walk into the shop to buy wine. Shocking that the shop has been there for awhile now even though it must have absolutely no customers at all considering that "Israelis don't drink wine". So my reply was, "Wow, you're really not a good bartender, are you?"

My plan for making bars really awesome- Just a few suggestions

1) Raise our salaries please ;) And lower the cost of alcohol. Why is a glass of wine more expensive than a bottle in a supermarket?

2) Have a bartending course in which Israelis learn how to make and mix drinks.

3) Teach bartenders the basics about wine, (like, Chardonnay and Riesling are white wines and Shiraz, Cabernet and Merlot are red wines.)

4) Also try serving the drinks that are on the menu. If the menu says Bellini with Prosecco, why do you say you only have Cava? Seriously, can we all just admit the truth that Cava is Prosecco's really uncool (and overrated) little sister from Spain?

5) Teach bartenders to be nice to the customer so the customer will want to give a tip. I mean, Hello, I'm American, we're using to giving at least 20% tips, usually more to bartenders.